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(Luke 6:27) "But to those of you who will listen, I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you."
In this series, we're delving deeper into the teachings that Jesus left us to follow. The fourteenth commandment leads us to our next focus: LOVE YOUR ENEMIES.
"We all know that loving our enemies is one of the hardest challenges we face, and without the Holy Spirit's help, it feels nearly impossible. Yet, whether we like it or not, it stands as one of Christianity’s most powerful and life-changing opportunities, offering profound benefits for all involved. It calls us to move beyond just reacting with anger, encouraging us to reach, choose, and develop Jesus’s supernatural empathy, forgiveness, and genuine compassion. Jesus’s guidance on how to love those who oppose us will transform our lives. By understanding and practising all of Jesus's principles, we will find peace and build stronger, more reconciled relationships in our communities.
To truly grasp the concept of loving our enemies, we must redefine what Jesus's love really means. It's not about forcing ourselves to like someone or ignoring our own boundaries. Instead, it's about choosing to care for their well-being by seeing them through Jesus's eyes - not through their words or actions! Jesus urges us to break the cycle of revenge by responding to those who harm us with His kindness and praying for those who mistreat us with His love.
This doesn't mean bottling up anger or tolerating mistreatment either. C.S. Lewis noted that love and forgiveness are linked—while not everyone who needs forgiveness is an enemy, every enemy does need forgiveness. Understanding this shows that loving enemies is an active choice, not a passive acceptance. It’s about first recognising the grace we’ve received and, in that acknowledgement, passing it on to others. This lets God turn something that feels really hard for us into something beautiful for everyone. It's like saying thank you for what you've done for me, with your actions.
Unfortunately, because our brains are wired to remember insults more than kindness, this tendency causes unnecessary suffering. Therefore, deep wounds, significant betrayals, and ongoing hurts can make forgiveness feel totally out of reach. Yet, stories of people moving from deep anger to peace reveal that, while challenging, transformation IS possible. Self-forgiveness is also vital; you can’t truly offer grace to others if you’re harsh on yourself. If that’s the case, then loving your enemies starts with self-acceptance and recognising that you, too, are forgiven.
The power in loving enemies lies in breaking cycles of revenge. Choosing to respond with Jesus’s love and forgiveness frees us from resentment and opens the door to transformation - both for ourselves and others. This isn’t weakness; it takes profound strength to believe in GOD’s redemption and potential for someone - even when it feels impossible. This is the abundant life Jesus offers us, and it starts with changing our own hearts."
This, my friend, is how GOD wants to reshape our response to those who hurt us. This is how we can truly love our enemies!
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Let's pray, "Heavenly Father, teach me to see people through Your eyes and guide me to respond with kindness instead of frustration and anger. Show me how to lovingly pray for them and help me break the cycle of hurt." Amen!
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